Pain

Inevitably, all pain is about longing for yesterday - whoever we had before,whatever used to be. But when pain doesn't go away fast enough, we criticize ourselves for not getting over it, for not being strong enough, or even for being vulnerable in the first place..

That is not how wounds heal... They don't obey our wishes... Healing takes place in its own way and in its own time..

Only when i accepted that, only when i stopped fighting, did i find any peace...