After so many processed thoughts, i am glad to find that i still have someone who has the same frequency as me...
Sometimes, i wonder how often than not, do we get to meet people after years (or maybe not that long lar) of non-contact, we still manage to share stuff and update each other??
I am quite lucky to say...
Sunday, January 31, 2010
Singtel or Starhub, Broadband sucks?
Then in the first place, why bite more than one can chew...
Now we are facing efficiencies of services
Perhaps the recommended way of solving this problem is to create another service which LIMITs the number of users into their broadband such that they are able to enjoy the real services that the company is offering..
Any intakers for the project... I bet you will earn much more than singtel or starhub... lol...
Now we are facing efficiencies of services
Perhaps the recommended way of solving this problem is to create another service which LIMITs the number of users into their broadband such that they are able to enjoy the real services that the company is offering..
Any intakers for the project... I bet you will earn much more than singtel or starhub... lol...
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Food for thoughts..
Come Across this on FaceBook
Maybe i should share...
And even now as I type and attempt to compose my feeble disorganized thought into some form of a coherent sequence of the written word, I am continuing to discover things about myself faster than I can write them down, struggling to keep up with fleeting images and trying to figure out the significance they bear with my life.
There is only such a thin line between productive self-discovery and a mere, worthless dis-assembly of meaninglessly random prose.
Maybe i should share...
And even now as I type and attempt to compose my feeble disorganized thought into some form of a coherent sequence of the written word, I am continuing to discover things about myself faster than I can write them down, struggling to keep up with fleeting images and trying to figure out the significance they bear with my life.
There is only such a thin line between productive self-discovery and a mere, worthless dis-assembly of meaninglessly random prose.
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Stress..
It is funny to see how people can be so stressed about certain stuff, when the advice that is given is to take in a deep breath, clear your head and go to sleep..
The point i want to make is, sometimes, the simplest thing is always out of our sight... for no apparent reason...
The point i want to make is, sometimes, the simplest thing is always out of our sight... for no apparent reason...
Monday, January 25, 2010
Many a theory, most hypothesis, none works for all
The best and the most important one that i learn, always sit on the fence if it does not apply to you... Though no matter how much you wish to help, the outcome is never pleasant.. As you are implying your thoughts to that situation and wishes it to happen the same way that you want it to happen..
So for a peaceful solution to that helpful attribute of yours, learn to give generic comments and try not to side any parties... Afterall, the only fault that is directed is always towards ALL of the involved party... This is the way to a peaceful mind... Hopefully..
So for a peaceful solution to that helpful attribute of yours, learn to give generic comments and try not to side any parties... Afterall, the only fault that is directed is always towards ALL of the involved party... This is the way to a peaceful mind... Hopefully..
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Tutoring....
Finally, i am able to understand the phrase 'the passion and drive of young teachers'..
It really encourages me when a tutee wishes to extend or have more lessons with me...
It causes me to go the extra mile for them, even though at times, i am reluctant to do so... However, i find it worthwhile..
However, though, this means that there will be more stress for me... And at the very least, I am able to take it...
P.S. The recent posts made last few days are all random thoughts that had occurred which i wished to pen it down...
It really encourages me when a tutee wishes to extend or have more lessons with me...
It causes me to go the extra mile for them, even though at times, i am reluctant to do so... However, i find it worthwhile..
However, though, this means that there will be more stress for me... And at the very least, I am able to take it...
P.S. The recent posts made last few days are all random thoughts that had occurred which i wished to pen it down...
Matured??
Most often say, at the age of 21, people are ready for the world...
They have never ask themselves, whether their thoughts have been matured? or rather, have their perceived maturity give them false representations of the true self of who they actually were??
I read in a book that says, when we were at young age, we tend to be very impulsive in decision making and as a result, we usually get a second chance due to protection from the ones who care for you... However, as we age, we usually do not get the 'second chance'. And because of it, we tend to do and make decisions slowly, fearing that it would be a bad one... Responsibility comes...
These are the arts of aging... Fascinating??
They have never ask themselves, whether their thoughts have been matured? or rather, have their perceived maturity give them false representations of the true self of who they actually were??
I read in a book that says, when we were at young age, we tend to be very impulsive in decision making and as a result, we usually get a second chance due to protection from the ones who care for you... However, as we age, we usually do not get the 'second chance'. And because of it, we tend to do and make decisions slowly, fearing that it would be a bad one... Responsibility comes...
These are the arts of aging... Fascinating??
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Limits....
Sometimes, i can't help to think whether one is pushing his limits to a certain extent....
My limit is simple...
Gather everyone, organise aa simple meal, explain the rationale of this 'free' meal to them and tell them what i feel..
Seriously hope that one day, this will not come... However, i see the situation now... It is nearing...
My limit is simple...
Gather everyone, organise aa simple meal, explain the rationale of this 'free' meal to them and tell them what i feel..
Seriously hope that one day, this will not come... However, i see the situation now... It is nearing...
Goal....
What is your goal in life??
If you have any answer to it, Think harder
For there is no answer to it
And the goal is to die...
If you have any answer to it, Think harder
For there is no answer to it
And the goal is to die...
Lonely???
Perhaps, my view towards loneliness in the past is quite an opposite of what i perceive it to be now..
I do appreciate loneliness... and i am starting to like it...
It brings real peace to oneself...
I do appreciate loneliness... and i am starting to like it...
It brings real peace to oneself...
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Sadness
Okay, there is a saying from my friend that goes like this...
People don't like being with loners..
So when one is feeling lonely. be alone...
It actually solves the problem itself.. Paradoxically huh.. However, think deeper... If one wishes to find companionship just because he wants it, it may or eventually backfire...
On a personal note, the feeling of jealousy and sadness comes in again... I have to let these emotions run thru me, then it will be another part and parcel of life...
Then, everything is nothing...
People don't like being with loners..
So when one is feeling lonely. be alone...
It actually solves the problem itself.. Paradoxically huh.. However, think deeper... If one wishes to find companionship just because he wants it, it may or eventually backfire...
On a personal note, the feeling of jealousy and sadness comes in again... I have to let these emotions run thru me, then it will be another part and parcel of life...
Then, everything is nothing...
IPhone...
Ok, personally, i feel that it is getting more and more irritating for people to flash their apple products anywhere... The term 'unique' is no longer there... I really pity those who are getting iphones without they themselves knowing what do they actually want...
Maybe the better option to waste money is to donate it to my pockets.. I will see it to better use...
Maybe the better option to waste money is to donate it to my pockets.. I will see it to better use...
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Apologising
Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right... It just means that you value your friendship more than your ego...
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Pain
Inevitably, all pain is about longing for yesterday - whoever we had before,whatever used to be. But when pain doesn't go away fast enough, we criticize ourselves for not getting over it, for not being strong enough, or even for being vulnerable in the first place..
That is not how wounds heal... They don't obey our wishes... Healing takes place in its own way and in its own time..
Only when i accepted that, only when i stopped fighting, did i find any peace...
That is not how wounds heal... They don't obey our wishes... Healing takes place in its own way and in its own time..
Only when i accepted that, only when i stopped fighting, did i find any peace...
Friday, January 15, 2010
Maturity
Maturity means (or i supposedly it means) one may accept the reality of the supposedly reality, however one may not agree to it...
A little more violent analogy
Suppose one guy kills one of my closer personnel... I may have accepted the reality that that person is gone forever.. However, though i may not have done anything bad to the do-er, it does not mean i agree to his actions... One day he will have to taste the revenge of someone else...
A little more violent analogy
Suppose one guy kills one of my closer personnel... I may have accepted the reality that that person is gone forever.. However, though i may not have done anything bad to the do-er, it does not mean i agree to his actions... One day he will have to taste the revenge of someone else...
Thursday, January 14, 2010
When You feel different, you think different...
Sometimes, i can't help to think, that we are just puppets for another person's entertainment..
Since change is inevitable, and you get hurt.. So the only consolation is next time, do not get yourself so deeply involved..
There must be bound to be some boundary...
Since change is inevitable, and you get hurt.. So the only consolation is next time, do not get yourself so deeply involved..
There must be bound to be some boundary...
The more you feel your different-ness, the more lonely you will get.
As water of life wash over us, we lose our sharp corners, and that can be good; we can take on surprising, satisfying new shapes. We can also lose some of the great wisdom that we were born with. But the evidence of that wisdom stays with us, right under our noses...
Our job is simple; trust your instincts, remember your secret pact and reclaim the wisdom you have always had.
Being different is not a problem,it is just being different...
However, feeling different is a problem... When u feel different, the feeling can actually change the way you see the world...
The more you feel your different-ness, the more lonely you will get.
From Letters to Sam
Our job is simple; trust your instincts, remember your secret pact and reclaim the wisdom you have always had.
Being different is not a problem,it is just being different...
However, feeling different is a problem... When u feel different, the feeling can actually change the way you see the world...
The more you feel your different-ness, the more lonely you will get.
From Letters to Sam
Question to Ponder....
If you found your best friend and your spouse were having an affair, who would you blame...
Try and comment on it...
Try and comment on it...
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Quotes i like from The Nightly Book of Positive Quotations...
Truth is a rough, honest, helter-skelter terrier, that none like to see brought into their drawing room...
Kind words can be short and easy to speak.. But their echoes are truly endless...
The healthy, strong individual, is the one who asks for help when he needs it.. Whether he has an abscess on his knee or in his soul..
To carry care to bed is to sleep with a pack on your backs...
Adversity not only draws people together, but brings forth that beautiful inward friendship...
Flatterers look like friends as wolves like dogs...
Maturity is achieved when a person accepts life as full of tensions...
The defense force inside of us wants us to be cautious, to stay away from anything as intense as a new kind of action. Its job is to protect us, and it categorically avoids anything resembling danger.. But it is often wrong...
Judge each day not by its harvest, but by the seeds you plant...
The road to happiness lies in two simple principles: Find what interests you and that you can do well, put your whole soul into it - every bit of energy and ambition and natural ability that you have...
The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgives but do not forget...
Blame yourself if you have no branches of leaves; do not accuse the sun of partiality..
Everything should be made as simple as possible... but not simpler..
True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable...
Millions long for immortality who do not know what to do with themselves on a rainy Sunday afternoon...
Anything in life that we do not accept will simple make trouble for us until we make peace with it...
Character is simply habit long enough continued...
Friendship is an art, and very few persons are born with a natural gift for it...
Resistance causes pain and lethargy. It is only when we practice acceptance that new possibilities appear...
If it is working, keep doing it.. If it is not working, stop doing it.... If you don't know what to do, don't do anything...
The worst loneliness is not to be comfortable with yourself...
Tolerance is the positive and cordinal effort to understand another's beliefs, practices, and habits without necessarily sharing or accepting them...
If a person gives you his time, he can give you no more precious gift...
If your ship doesn't come in, swim out of it...
The chain of friendship, however bright, does not stand he attrition of constant close contact...
My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard.. Mother would come out and say, "You are tearing up the grass." "We are not raising grass." Dad would reply.. "We are raising boys.."
Sweet words are like honey, a little may refresh, but too much gluts the stomach..
Never reach out your hand unless you are willing to extend your arm...
Honest without compassion and understanding is not honesty, but subtle hostility..
Kind words can be short and easy to speak.. But their echoes are truly endless...
The healthy, strong individual, is the one who asks for help when he needs it.. Whether he has an abscess on his knee or in his soul..
To carry care to bed is to sleep with a pack on your backs...
Adversity not only draws people together, but brings forth that beautiful inward friendship...
Flatterers look like friends as wolves like dogs...
Maturity is achieved when a person accepts life as full of tensions...
The defense force inside of us wants us to be cautious, to stay away from anything as intense as a new kind of action. Its job is to protect us, and it categorically avoids anything resembling danger.. But it is often wrong...
Judge each day not by its harvest, but by the seeds you plant...
The road to happiness lies in two simple principles: Find what interests you and that you can do well, put your whole soul into it - every bit of energy and ambition and natural ability that you have...
The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgives but do not forget...
Blame yourself if you have no branches of leaves; do not accuse the sun of partiality..
Everything should be made as simple as possible... but not simpler..
True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable...
Millions long for immortality who do not know what to do with themselves on a rainy Sunday afternoon...
Anything in life that we do not accept will simple make trouble for us until we make peace with it...
Character is simply habit long enough continued...
Friendship is an art, and very few persons are born with a natural gift for it...
Resistance causes pain and lethargy. It is only when we practice acceptance that new possibilities appear...
If it is working, keep doing it.. If it is not working, stop doing it.... If you don't know what to do, don't do anything...
The worst loneliness is not to be comfortable with yourself...
Tolerance is the positive and cordinal effort to understand another's beliefs, practices, and habits without necessarily sharing or accepting them...
If a person gives you his time, he can give you no more precious gift...
If your ship doesn't come in, swim out of it...
The chain of friendship, however bright, does not stand he attrition of constant close contact...
My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard.. Mother would come out and say, "You are tearing up the grass." "We are not raising grass." Dad would reply.. "We are raising boys.."
Sweet words are like honey, a little may refresh, but too much gluts the stomach..
Never reach out your hand unless you are willing to extend your arm...
Honest without compassion and understanding is not honesty, but subtle hostility..
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