Friday, February 5, 2010

Random Ramblings #1: Alive & True

What is it like to be alive,
To be true to thy self & thou soul?
For we bury our real selves under guises,
Guises of politically correctness & politeness;

We fear what others might think,
We are slaves to the approval of men,
And often we don't mean what we say,
Or say what we mean.

We're taught to "think before we speak",
but do we think too much and soon forget what we intended to speak?
Do we quench that fire burning in our hearts,
With cold shower of cynic's opinions?

Like how that ol Japanese saying goes,
"A nail that sticks out gets hammered down."
Somewhere in the recesses of our minds,
Do we subconsciously submit to that notion?

While growing up, I always appreciated harmony,
So much so that it seems like I practise self-censorship every so often,
Fearing that indeed if I speak, I'll be hammered down by someone in authority
Someone who's supposed to have a "better" opinion,
Someone more qualified?

Is it really wrong though, to be ignorant and voice out what you feel?
I used to hate people who appeared like empty vessels,
Trying to argue about an issue, while they are misinformed or
With arguments so shallow it's like wading through a swimming pool fit for a foetus.

But at least I salute them for first coming out of their comfort zone,
That comfort zone of sitting on the fence,
And not take the risk of becoming the public enemy or being ridiculed.

And talking about opinions...
When was the last time I really voiced what I felt.
An opinion which ain't just regurgitating what you hear or read in the news,
any 'auntie' can do that.

Where's the last time I thought critically about an issue?
To develop my own personal opinion?
And not just opinions, but also principles, convictions.
Where are my convictions, my principles, my morals, my values?

What do I stand for?
What makes me alive?
Am I true to myself?

Taken from : http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=289190490269&ref=mf

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Quotes i found online...

1. Winning isn't everything. But wanting to win is.

2. You would achieve more, if you don't mind who gets the credit.

3. When everything else is lost, the future still remains.

4. Don't fight too much. Or the enemy would know your art of war.

5. The only job you start at the top is when you dig a grave.

6. If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for everything.

7. If you do little things well, you'll do big ones better.

8. Only thing that comes to you without effort is old age.

9. You won't get a second chance to make the first impression.

10. Only those who do nothing do not make mistakes.

11. Never take a problem to your boss unless you have a solution.

12. If you are not failing you're not taking enough risks.

13. Don't try to get rid of bad temper by losing it.

14. If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.

15. Those who don't make mistakes usually don't make anything

16. There are two kinds of failures. Those who think and never do, and those who do and never think.

17. Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win.

18. All progress has resulted from unpopular decisions.

19. Change your thoughts and you change your world.

20. Understanding proves intelligence, not the speed of the learning.

21. There are two kinds of fools in this world. Those who give advice and those who don't take it.

22. The best way to kill an idea is to take it to a meeting.

23. Management is doing things right. Leadership is doing the right things.

24. Friendship founded on business is always better than business founded on friendship.

Disappointment

Monday, February 1, 2010

What is considered normal??

Following what one should do? or following what one wished to do...

Either way, there should be a balanced and wait till one has understood his maturity from there, then one will what to do...

Death

I wish to share some information about grieving about death and death itself... However, let me finish with that book first...

Grown-up

This term no longer has a clear meaning to it...

It has been blurred...

False Trust....

This is a new term for me... Maybe that is why i am so agitated when things happen... Just want to hope that nothing goes wrong afterall...